Handwriting Can Change Your Life

Who is Vimala Rodgers?

A zealous pioneer in mind/hand research and author of the bestseller Your Handwriting Can Change Your Life, Vimala Rodgers is an educator, handwriting expert, and Master Alphabetician, whose focus is the inherent spirituality of the letters of the alphabet and their effect upon the psyche. She has offered hundreds of presentations to such diverse groups as Boards of Education; the Philosophical Research Society; staff, faculty, & students at both Stanford University and the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology; American Mensa; the National Health Federation; the Esalen Institute; psychiatrists at Kaiser Permanente Hospital, and spiritual groups of countless denominations.

Rodgers’ newest contribution–Transform Your Life Through Handwriting--has recently been released throughSounds True. This “kit” is an interactive learning program consisting of a guidebook, a journal, two audio CDs and a deck of alphabet cards–a dynamic, easy to use tool for people who want to change the direction of their lives in a positive, self-affirming way.

Interview with Vimala Rodgers

Everyone feels some way about their handwriting. My focus is to guide you in adopting writing changes that draw out the positive, uplifting, and unexpressed gifts that live within you, and support you in designing a life you love.

Last year our Handwriters for Peace evolved into an

through which members ask for prayers in emergency situations
and we hold both them and their request in our prayers.
Once you join, I do not share your name or your E-mail address;
I send all E-mails as BCCs.
When I let the Circle know of a miracle that has been sent in,
I do not include names without your permission

How to Join the Alphabetical Prayer Circle

To strengthen our intentions, each day we agree to spend a precious 10 seconds once
–or many times a day–offering our Alphabetical Healing Prayer:

Alphabetical Healing Prayer

Also…In the course of the day, each of us devotes a few minutes of quiet time to write,
on unlined paper, one line of the initial of our first name (not nickname)
in both upper- and lowercase. Just one line; that’s it…more if you care to.
If you’re not sure how to form your letter, go here or here. Just one line–in
turquoise ink if possible.
I suggest turquoise because it’s the color of the LetterM, who represents Divine Grace
by whatever name you choose to call it.

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With several hundred of us
offering our simple prayer
and writing our initials daily,
profound heart and healing energy
is sent forth far and wide, blessing and healing.

It has no shape,
you can’t hold it in your hands,
it has no color,
nor is it something you can see.
Because it gives birth from the heart,
it is one of the most
powerful energy attractors the universe.
It’s called prayer…
Our Alphabetical Prayer Circle
is an invitation for you to share yours…

With Gratitude & Deep bows, Vimala

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Social scientists have known for some time
that our thoughts, words, and interactions are not isolated incidents
but radiate outward, affecting the consciousness of the Whole.
As we adopt soul-based writing habits
we simultaneously adopt soul-based thinking habits,
and with consistency they become a source of global healing.
With several hundred of us offering our simple prayer and writing our initials daily,
profound heart and healing energy is sent forth far and wide, blessing and healing.

World surrounded by people

Last year our Handwriters for Peace evolved into an

through which members ask for prayers in emergency situations
and we hold both them and their request in our prayers.
Once you join, I do not share your name or your E-mail address;
I send all E-mails as BCCs.
When I let the Circle know of a miracle that has been sent in,
I do not include names without your permission.

To strengthen our intentions, each day we agree to spend a precious 10 seconds once
–or many times a day–offering our Alphabetical Healing Prayer:

Also…In the course of the day, each of us devotes a few minutes of quiet time to write,
on unlined paper, one line of the initial of our first name (not nickname)
in both upper- and lowercase. Just one line; that’s it…more if you care to.
If you’re not sure how to form your letter, go here or here. Just one line–in turquoise ink if possible.
I suggest turquoise because it’s the color of the Letter, who represents Divine Grace—
by whatever name you choose to call it.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

With several hundred of us
offering our simple prayer
and writing our initials daily,
profound heart and healing energy
is sent forth far and wide, blessing and healing.

It has no shape,
you can’t hold it in your hands,
it has no color,
nor is it something you can see.
Because it gives birth from the heart,
it is one of the most
powerful energy attractors the universe.
It’s called prayer…

is an invitation for you to share yours…
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History of the Pink Ribbon

THE Pink Ribbon

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The Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation (now Susan G. Komen for the Cure) is largely associated with the color pink and of course, the pink ribbon. The charity started giving pink visors to breast cancer survivors in its Race for the Cure in 1990, and in the fall of 1991 the foundation gave pink ribbons to every participant in its New York City race.

However, Komen did not create the pink ribbon. Nor was pink always the color associated with breast cancer. The pink ribbon was introduced as the official symbol for breast cancer awareness during National Breast Cancer Awareness Month in 1992 by Evelyn Lauder of the Estée Lauder Companies and then-editor of Self magazine Alexandra Penney. This was after the magazine was turned down by a 68-year-old woman who had already been giving out peach ribbons to raise awareness about the lack of funding for cancer prevention.

Charlotte Haley had several family members who had been diagnosed with breast cancer, and she believed the National Cancer Institute had an obligation to focus more of its budget on cancer prevention. To bring attention to this Haley made peach ribbons, thousands of them, by hand in her dining room along with cards that said, “The National Cancer Institute annual budget is $1.8 billion, only 5 percent goes for cancer prevention. Help us wake up our legislators and America by wearing this ribbon.” Haley started contacting public women to spread the message and giving out the ribbons and the cards in her community.

Haley’s message was starting to spread at about the same time Evelyn Lauder (who had been diagnosed with breast cancer in 1989) joined forces with Alexandra Penney to collaborate on Self magazine’s second annual breast cancer awareness month issue. Lauder had been the guest editor of the first issue and was keen to expand upon its success. Penney and Lauder decided that the best way to do this was to create a ribbon that would be distributed at Lauder’s cosmetics counters around the country. As the plans for the special issue were getting underway Penney learned of Charlotte Haley’s peach ribbon.

Ribbon Queen

According to Penney, Self magazine contacted Haley for permission to use her peach ribbon, telling her they wanted nothing in return, only to give the ribbon national attention. To their surprise, Charlotte Haley wanted nothing to do with them. Haley was an activist working on the ground to raise awareness about breast cancer and federal funding. She had no interest in commercializing the ribbon or the disease. Self magazine, on the other hand, was a commercial enterprise. Haley’s refusal may have prophetic. The magazine was committed to moving forward with its plans. It just needed another color.

Pink. It was a safe as sugar and spice, a color to evoke traditional femininity and the goodness and decency it conveys.

Capitalizing on assumptions about women’s emotionality, beauty, morality, and nurturance, the pink ribbon symbolized both the virtuous and blameless aspects of breast cancer and the femininity the disease threatened.

Though it was essentially a variation on the red HIV/AIDS ribbon, breast cancer came without the same social stigma. Breast cancer was not associated with lifestyle factors that easily construe a “blame the victim” mentality. Breast cancer afflicted our mothers, sisters, wives, aunts, and grandmothers. Innocent bystanders.

Largely due to the work of the early breast cancer movement, breast cancer had already shifted from being something kept quiet to a topic of polite conversation. The pink ribbon set the stage for the strategic use of symbolism and mass media to influence public opinion about breast cancer. Then the disease-specific symbol transformed into a brand logo.

Toxic Time Is Up

Toxic Time Is UpWhy is the breast cancer epidemic still raging after 30 years of “awareness” and pink ribbon products? Each year, corporations pack the shelves with pink ribbon products, surrounding us with “breast cancer awareness” messages. These products help to raise billions of dollars in the name of breast cancer, and yet more than 40,000 women in the U.S. still die of the disease every year. And many corporations are selling pink ribbon products in the name of breast cancer that contain chemicals linked to an increased risk of the disease. We call those corporations “pinkwashers.”

For 12 years, Breast Cancer Action’s Think Before You Pink® campaign has held corporations accountable for their toxic pink ribbon products. This year, it’s time to say we’ve had enough. Instead of targeting pinkwashers one at a time, it’s time to go straight to the source—the chemicals in these products that are making us sick in the first place.

Do you have any idea how many toxic chemicals are in the average pink ribbon product? Nope? Neither do we. Nor does anyone!

All anyone knows for certain is that only a small handful—about 200 of the over 80,000 chemicals in use in the United States—have been tested for human safety. And that’s a serious problem. For all of us.

Pretty in Pink

The woman was 68-year-old Charlotte Haley, the granddaughter, sister, and mother of women who had battled breast cancer. Her peach-colored loops were handmade in her dining room. Each set of five came with a card saying: “The National Cancer Institute annual budget is $1.8 billion, only 5 percent goes for cancer prevention. Help us wake up our legislators and America by wearing this ribbon.”… Then Self magazine called.

From the beginning, the pink ribbon connoting breast cancer awareness has been embroiled in controversy. Today, some members of the movement wear it proudly, giving thanks for both the symbol and its attendant charity-dollar largesse. Others hate it with a passion. But to much of the media and the world at large, the ribbon is the breast cancer movement. Where did the ribbon come from, where is it going, and what has it meant along the way?

The merging of the ribbon and symbolism in this country came about in two huge leaps. The first occurred in 1979, the year that Penney Laingen, wife of a hostage who’d been taken in Iran, was inspired by song to tie yellow ribbons around the trees in her front yard. The ribbon, Americans were told on the nightly news, signaled her desire to see her husband home again. For the first time, ribbon became medium, ribbon became message. Yellow ribbons sprouted up across the country in solidarity. That was step one.

Step two occurred 11 years later, when AIDS activists looked at the yellow ribbons that had been resurrected for soldiers fighting the Gulf War and said, “What about something for our boys dying here at home?” The activist art group Visual AIDS turned the ribbon bright red—“because it’s the color of passion”—looped it, spruced it up and sent it onto the national stage during the Tony awards, photogenically pinned to the chest of actor Jeremy Irons.

Ribbons had arrived. Overnight, every charitable cause had to have one. After just a short time, they were so ubiquitous that The New York Times declared 1992 “The Year of the Ribbon.”

The stage was set for the evolution of the breast cancer ribbon.

First on the scene was the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation. Komen had been handing out bright pink visors to breast cancer survivors running in its Race for the Cure since late 1990. In fall 1991, mere months after Irons’ electrifying appearance, the foundation gave out pink ribbons to every participant in its New York City race. This first use of the ribbon, though, was for Komen just a detail in the larger and more important story of the race. To really break out, the pink ribbon would need a situation in which the ribbon was the event.

And it didn’t take long for that situation to arrive. Early in 1992, Alexandra Penney, then the editor in chief of Self, was busy designing the magazine’s second annual Breast Cancer Awareness Month issue. The previous year’s effort, inspired and guest edited by Evelyn Lauder—Estée Lauder senior corporate vice president and a breast cancer survivor—had been a huge hit. The question was, how to do it again and even better. Then Penney had a flash of inspiration—she would create a ribbon, and enlist the cosmetics giant to distribute it in New York City stores. Evelyn Lauder went her one better: She promised to put the ribbon on cosmetics counters across the country.

Penney recalls the birth of the ribbon now from her office at Ziff-Davis. “You know how it is when things are in the air,” Penney says.

“A week later Liz Smith wrote about a woman who was already doing a peach-colored ribbon for breast cancer.” The woman was 68-year-old Charlotte Haley, the granddaughter, sister, and mother of women who had battled breast cancer. Her peach-colored loops were handmade in her dining room. Each set of five came with a card saying: “The National Cancer Institute annual budget is $1.8 billion, only 5 percent goes for cancer prevention. Help us wake up our legislators and America by wearing this ribbon.”

Haley was strictly grassroots, handing the cards out at the local supermarket and writing prominent women, everyone from former First Ladies to Dear Abby. Her message spread by word of mouth. By the time Liz Smith printed her phone number, Haley had distributed thousands.

Then Self magazine called.

“We said, ‘We want to go in with you on this, we’ll give you national attention, there’s nothing in it for us,” Penney says. Even five years later, her voice still sounds startled by Haley’s answer. “She wanted nothing to do with us. Said we were too commercial.”

At the end of September 1992, Liz Smith printed a follow-up to Haley’s story. She reported that Estee Lauder had experienced “problems” trying to work with Haley, and quoted the activist claiming that Self had asked her to relinquish the concept of the ribbon. “We didn’t want to crowd her,” Penney says. “But we really wanted to do a ribbon. We asked our lawyers and they said, ‘ Come up with another color.”

They chose pink.

There are many choices to be made after you decide “pink ribbon.” According to C.M. Offray and Son, the largest ribbon-makers in the world (they supply the ribbon on which Olympic medals are hung), ribbons come in three basic styles: woven, grosgrain and craft, each with its own variations. Given the plethora of decisions that had to be made in designing October’s surprise, it’s startling that hue wasn’t one of them.

“There are so many different shades, but it would have been our ‘150 pink’—basic, standard pink,” says Ellie Schneider, vice president of publicity and public relations for Offray, when the ribbon is mentioned. “It’s pretty, a pastel pink without being too washed-out or powdery-looking. It’s one of our best-selling colors. It’s been in our line forever.”

Because Estée Lauder and its corporate philanthropy, the Breast Cancer Research Foundation, did not respond to repeated requests for interviews, we don’t know who exactly ordered the 150 pink in grosgrain. Penney recalls only that Estée Lauder made all the manufacturing choices, leaving her to publicize the promotion and edit the accompanying issue of her magazine.

What we do know is that because of Haley’s ribbon, Self and Estée Lauder had traded in a color that was merely peachy for one that was an icon, a semiotic superstar.

“Pink is the quintessential female color,” says Margaret Welch, director of the Color Association of the United States. “The profile on pink is playful, life-affirming. We have studies as to its calming effect, its quieting effect, its lessening of stress. [Pastel pink] is a shade known to be health-giving; that’s why we have expressions like ‘in the pink.’ You can’t say a bad thing about it.” Pink is, in other words, everything cancer notably is not.

NABCO’s executive director, Amy Langer, told The New York Times Magazine in 1996 that breast cancer, unlike other health threats to women, was “loaded”: “It’s about body image, it’s about nurturing—it’s certainly about femininity,” she was quoted as saying. For women who feel this way, who experience cancer as predominantly a loss of womanhood, what better color to pin on than pink—girlie, pretty, healthy pink?

In fall 1992, Estée Lauder makeup counters handed out 1.5 million ribbons, each accompanied by a laminated card describing a proper breast self-exam. They collected over 200,000 pink ribbon petitions urging the White House to push for increased funding for research.

Within a year, Charlotte Haley’s loop of peach ribbon was history.

At the same time that the pink ribbon was becoming a national symbol, a sea change was taking place in American boardrooms. Beginning in the mid-1980s, the corporate world was discovering cause-related marketing. Carol Cone, founder of Cone Communications, was a major force in this development. Research underwritten by her small Boston-based public relations firm proved that, given the same cost and quality, more than half of consumers would switch from a particular store or brand to one associated with a good cause. Armed with this data, Carol Cone set out to teach America how to do well by doing good. In the late ’80s, she engineered Reebok’s successful adoption of the human rights issue. And in 1993, she set about helping Avon cosmetics stake out a claim on breast cancer.

“The challenge for Avon at the time was creating a unique program,” Cone says. By her count, there were already 15 medium-to-large companies, including fellow cosmetics titan Estée Lauder, involved with this issue. Avon’s new campaign would have to push away from that pack but hold tight to the signifiers of breast cancer.

The fulcrum that made this maneuver possible was the pink ribbon. About two inches long, the original Avon pink ribbon is a weighty and formidable piece of jewelry, half pink enamel and half gold cast, winced in the middle by a flowering gold rose. It—and a smaller, more circumspect lapel pin, developed so men would feel comfortable wearing the symbol—retails for $2. The pink signaled breast cancer, but the addition of the color gold and the rose are distinctly Avon. In its first two years, the pin raised $10 million. Aprés pink pin, lé deluge.

In 1993, the October after Avon’s launch, Estée Lauder introduced a heart-shaped compact with an enameled pink ribbon design, profits to go to its Breast Cancer Research Fund. The Susan G. Komen Foundation began offering a pink rhinestone brooch. Carolee Jewelry designed another one—a female runner in midstride, flowing loop ribbon in hand. Nightshirts, angel statuettes, teddy bears, sports clothes, credit cards, Daytimers all hit the market and, with increasing speed, other companies joined in, each offering its own version of the traditional ribbon. December 1996 found the New York Times Magazine labeling breast cancer “this year’s hot charity.”

“Today there are 80 to 100 companies involved, and that’s only the ones big enough to get on your radar screen,” Cone says. Without pausing, she casually prognosticates about “the next 100 companies to get involved with breast cancer.”

She and the Times agree on the source of the disease’s peculiar popularity in corporate America. It is a quality that the breast cancer awareness ribbon both captures and enables. “Companies want to support breast cancer,” Cone says simply. “Breast cancer is safe.”

Unlike AIDS, breast cancer is free of what companies euphemistically call “lifestyle issues.” And, perhaps as importantly, breast cancer provides charitable credentials for what can be a very small investment. With the ribbon’s message of ”awareness” translating most often into a familiarity with early detection techniques, all a company has to do, to do good, is put a ribbon on its merchandise.

New Balance, for example, donates money from the sale of its Race for the Cure caps, socks and T-shirts to the Komen Foundation, but its pink ribbon sneakers, a Foundation spokesperson says, are ”just for awareness.” The sneakers have the tiny pale-pink outline of a ribbon sewn onto the corner of their tongues—difficult if not impossible for anyone except the owner to see. The possibility that those two wan loops might remind woman to get the mammogram that saves her life, however, provides the sneakers with their raison d’étre.

It is this dynamic that drives the pink ribbon’s detractors to distraction. “There is a value to awareness, but awareness of what, and to what end?” asks Barbara Brenner, activist and executive director of Breast Cancer Action (BCA) in San Francisco. “We need changes in the direction the research is going, we need access to care—beyond mammograms—we need to know what is causing the disease, and we need a cure. The pink ribbon is not indicative of any of that.”

Of course, not everyone in the breast cancer movement thinks that commercial benefit is bad. “Avon has used the symbol to touch people’s hearts and put money back into the cause,” says Beverly Baker, executive director of the Mautner Project for Lesbians with Cancer, which receives pink ribbon funding. “I certainly wouldn’t take issue with that.”

Between 1991 and 1996, federal funding for breast cancer research increased nearly fourfold to over $550 million. And according to the American Cancer Society, the percentage of women getting annual mammograms and clinical breast exams has more than doubled over the last decade. While the Komen Foundation lost out on patenting the ribbon, it has collected millions from companies that use it and donate the proceeds. Avon, which has raised $25 million purely from merchandise, is today the largest private funder of community-based nonprofit breast cancer programs.

But signs abound that the reign of today’s ribbon is waning. When the fashion industry took on breast cancer, they made their own symbol, a blue bull’s eye, which is now in six countries. Groups on the West Coast substitute the more “powerful” purple loop. In Canada, BCA Ottawa has turned the loop upside down, for the tears shed at diagnosis and lined it with black, to remember women who have died. San Francisco’s BCA has a white-on-black button that reads “Cancer Sucks.”

For those who, like Barbara Brenner, see the pink ribbon as a red herring—and the 44,000 women dying of breast cancer each year can ill afford the distraction—the decline of the pink ribbon comes none too soon. “We have to question our willingness as cancer organizations to get into bed with people whose ultimate goal is profit, not health,” Brenner says. And her point—that corporate benevolence is linked with the appearance of care rather than active solutions—is supported by history. After all, homelessness was the darling corporate cause once, in the years before welfare reform.